When I look back on this year, I can’t believe how far I’ve come. As cheesy and cliche as that may sound, it’s truly been a transformative year..and it all started with my relationship with money. Money, Money, and Less Money. In January of 2019, I was broke. And I mean b-r-o-k-e. I was up to my eyeballs in credit-card debt, student loans, and was the lucky owner of a new home mortgage. Not only that, but my spending habits were less than desirable. I didn’t think that I was bad with money, growing up I had always been responsible; I saved like crazy as a kid, I paid for everything I needed in college, and I bought my own first car. Then real-life adulthood struck me, and things got stressful. I stopped cooking and started eating out for “ease”, buying $4 coffee on the reg, and indulged in late-night Amazon stress shopping. Haven’t we all? When my credit cards started sending me alerts that I was almost maxed out, I had an ugly wake up call. Not only that, but I was borrowing money left and right from people, only to keep myself afloat. I knew I had to take a deep look at how I was spending and living and reevaluate everything. One morning, I sat down and combed through it all…three times in a row. I wrote down every cent I made in a month and made a list of every bill and expense I had, including […]
Christmas Guide: Gifts for the person who has it all
Christmas is just around the corner, and it truly is my favorite time of year! There are bloggers and websites everywhere telling you all the best things to buy for your mom, brother, sister, husband, neighbor, dog..etc. If you can buy a gift, someone is suggesting what you buy. I am not one of those people…I don’t have a list of suggested gifts to buy anyone because I think gifts are personal and one size does not fit all. I’ll cut to the chase; I am not a gift person, I don’t like getting gifts and shopping for them stresses me out. However, it is the season of giving, and there are always people on your list that have everything. If they want it, they could buy it themselves, so it’s like..why even bother? Do you feel me? I’m no Grinch though, I do think the people you love should receive something, but not in the form of a material item. What to get those who have everything, want nothing, or simply for the minimalists in your life: One word…experiences. There are so many ways you could give people in your life the gift of experiences, and I promise, they will enjoy that gift above all. Let me elaborate! Give your time: This day in age, everyone is busy. Busy working, shuffling kids around, busy doing chores, running errands..scheduling down to the very second. Carving away time for someone is a true gift. I would give anything for just a […]
How my $397 kitchen is holding up 18 months later
The big boom that launched my blog was my $397 kitchen makeover! If you haven’t read it – you can see it here. Since completing that makeover, I’ve had so many people inquire about how the products I used are holding up, and how my unsanded painted cabinets are holding up..and I’m going to answer all of that! I will also cover some updates i’ve done since! Right after the makeover! My kitchen looked like this (above) after the makeover. I painted my cabinets without sanding (see how here) and added a peel and stick backsplash from Tic Tac Tiles all along the exposed walls. Peel and Stick Tile Update It has been 18 months this month since I “installed” the vinyl backsplash and it’s been AMAZING. I would 100% recommend and use it again. Not one corner has started to peel up, it’s not fading or yellowing, and there are not surface issues from me cleaning it. It looks as good as the day I put it up. Over a dozen of my Instagram followers have boughten Tic Tac tiles after seeing mine and have all had positive results. They peel off clean, are super affordable, and come in really chic tile patterns! If you want to reach more about them – I reviewed my subway tile ones here. You can also buy them from Amazon Prime here! For your own reference – my kitchen gets very humid as I live in North Carolina and I cook a ton. […]
5 dark paint colors to paint your bedroom now
You guys know by now…I love a dark, moody room! Though I flow between loving light and bright spaces and dark moody ones, when cooler weather hits, there is no saving me; I’m a moody gal! About 3 months ago, I took my canopy down. RIP $18 Amazon canopy [I just wanted something fresh, though I loved this canopy and plan to use it in another space!]. My room felt more open, but it lacked the cozy cave-ness that canopy provided. Oh, you didn’t know I was a bat? Something about feeling snuggled into my bed in a dark and texture-rich room makes me soo happy. While I didn’t want to hang more fabric from my ceiling, I knew I needed to cozy-it-up in my master bedroom. So I went to my next best friend, PAINT. Paint: the cheapest makeover. Paint can transform a room. My black suede wall in my bedroom grounds the space. It creates a dark backdrop that not only pulls you into the space, but everything instantly pops against it! Even the ugly wooden headboard (yes I LOATHE that rustic headboard) feels rich against the satiny black backdrop. Art looks amazing and expensive too. I don’t know what it is…I love a good dark wall. Be brave..paint the dang wall! Okay so maybe you love the idea of painting an accent wall (or the whole room!) dark…but black is just too risky for you. Do not fret. There are SO many beautiful dark wall colors you […]
My favorite boho shower curtains for under $30
The other day I was thinking about blog topics and all the things I want to write about. I have a list of about 30 things, but instead of using one of those I decided I would write about one of the questions I get asked about the most. My SHOWER CURTAIN! Believe it or not, one of my most-liked Instagram pictures (15,000 likes!) is of my bathroom and front and center is my shower curtain. Every time I post a similar picture I got tons of DM’s and comments asking where it’s from. Since I’m not cool enough yet to get the swipe up feature and link it for y’all on the gram, I decided to write about it. While I’m showing you where exactly the shower curtain is from, I wanted to do a round-up of some of my favorite boho (and look-alike) shower curtains I found. Switching out your shower curtain is one of the simplest and most cost-effective ways to transform a bathroom! Anthropologie Agneta Shower Curtain Sweet back story about this shower curtain (seen below in my bathroom!) I really wanted it – and I talked about how much I loved the Angeta from Anthro, however, my thrifty budget didn’t allow me to spend nearly $90 on a shower curtain. I spend $90 on 2 weeks of groceries, so from my perspective, it was out of reach. A very kind follower and friend of mine told me she had one she no longer used in […]